Donuts, Dudes, and Desire


On my recent trip to Lancaster I stopped for coffee at Dunkin Donuts. What follows is my exchange with the server at the drive through window.
Drive Through Man (DTM): "Morning, boss." (In the interest of full disclosure, I don't own Dunkin Donuts, and the DTM doesn't work for me.)

Me: I hand him the money, "Here you go, brother." (Nor do we share the same mother.)

A moment later he hands me the coffee.

DTM: "Careful. It's hot, guy." (He nailed this, we were both obviously men.)
Me: "You got it, man." (I affirm his assertation of our manliness.)

DTM: "Later, chief." (This came out of left field, neither of us looked like native Americans.)

Me: "Take care, dude." (More an unwillingness to allow him to "name-up" me, than a reference to any surfer heritage the server might have.)

Guys are funny like that. I guess the exchange could have gone even further. Neither of us had played the "mate," "friend," or "buddy" card yet. A bunch of words, all meaning the same thing.
Of course that stuff happens all the time, sort of like "desire," "zeal," or "fervor." A bunch of words, meaning the same thing. A bunch of words meaning passion, our topic of the day. 

Once, when asked what it takes to be the best, Michael Jordan replied.

“You have to have a passion for something to be great at it. So try everything until you find that thing you’re passionate about. When you find it, you can be great at it.”
Pete Cashmore

Pete Cashmore, the founder of Mashable, perhaps the largest tech media website in the world, was asked by Darren Hardy, the publisher of Success magazine, to give one, all-important piece of advice to fledgling entrepreneurs. His answer? "Find something you are passionate about, because without passion, you'll fail."

Both of those men reiterate my belief, and bring us back to my claim at the end of yesterday's post. It doesn't matter if it's playing basketball, establishing a media empire, or starting a game company, the first step is passion.

I don't come at this from an esoteric view point, or speak about passion as an "arteest," but rather a nut and bolt, brass tacks view of running a company. You must have passion. Without it you'll fail. Let me explain.

Running a game company sucks. Pure and simple. I spent a career in the Navy, deployed overseas more times than I can count, and commanded an anti-swimmer detachment in the heat of a Bahraini summer. I had more easy days in the Navy in one month than I had running Lock 'n Load Publishing in seven years. There is very little time off, and even less vacation. Artists flake in the middle of a projects, projects that you planned on paying for your next game, planned on paying your mortgage, planned on putting this week's groceries on your table. Hundreds of counters need to be proofed and proofed again. Printers need to be hounded, customers need to be helped, egos need to be salved, flame wars need to be fanned extinguished. And that's just Tuesday morning.

So I'm writing about this need for passion in a very practical sense. If you don't have passion, if you aren't driven. You'll just quit. If you don't wake up thinking about your next design at three AM, or get excited about the Action Point rule in Tank on Tank, you'll pack it in. Perhaps your wife will catch double pneumonia, and running the kids, correcting misprinted counters, and answering forum questions will sink you.  Maybe you'll just get tired of working every, single day of the year, and you'll ratchet back, get a real job, and move on.

And there is nothing wrong with that. But if you don't have that passion stop now. Stop because at some time the going will be tough, and without passion you'll never make it.

There's a second part to this passion post, a bit less dramatic, but I hope as interesting. I'll kick it off by asking you to speak with me now, and you are going to say, "I love playing games. Is that enough?"

You'll find out in my final post on passion. See you tomorrow, when I think I'll take a break from passion and talk about stupid, flipping Johnny Football.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Well and passionately said! Very important to love the things you spend your energy on. Be it family, friends or games.

Jim S.

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